Evan and I at the Pier

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Oh, THERE She Is

Well, the time for deployment has come and here I am, back on the blog. Things were going so smoothly. You had to know that's why no one was hearing from me. Because things were going so well. It's true, I'm a fair-weather friend, and was so busy being happy that I didn't take time to update the blog. And then June rolls around the corner and "pop"-- out of the woodwork, here I come, friends, with more tales of woe. So predictable!
Chris left yesterday for the boat; got to fly on to the ship from the squadron so we dropped him off like any other day, except of course, that it wasn't. We managed to stay awfully busy after seeing him off. We went to the beach, watched a movie, got ice-cream with friends whose husbands had gone with Chris, and had a dinner/playdate with our neighbors. All of which landed us home just in time for bath, books and bed. Just as I'd cunningly planned. At the moment, unfortunately, it seems to be 3 a.m., and I'm wide awake after Jake's nightly coughing fit, waiting for the cough medicine to kick in so I can get back to sleep. Both boys have had a post-nasal drip that really gets a grip after half a night's sleep; Jake's is just hanging on longer than is welcome. But see how productive I've been while I was waiting?

In Like a Lion, Out Like a Lion?

March on Oahu was a little different than the mainland. It doesn't seem to be receding like a good little lamb. Instead it is gusting and blowing and threatening to buffet us right off the hill we've come to call home. Rain comes and goes so fleetingly it calls us all fools: no sooner do we dash madly to our homes and cars than the sun is back, burning away every trace of cloud so that we look down at our wet shirts and wonder if we dreamed the whole thing.
The t-ball season is in full swing, heaven help us, and tomorrow is our fourth game. Jake is doing really well -- it IS his 3rd season -- he's a consistently good hitter and fields as well as any 5 year old. I hired an adorable sitter named Mollie to watch Evan while we practice & play; they walk off hand in hand to the playground while the balls fly and thus far the arrangement seems to please everyone. Belinda and I continue to bolster each others spirits and are doing the best we can with what God gave us. And them.
Chris is preparing for a summer deployment and has been out on the ship for 2 five-day intervals getting some practice in with the air crew to ready themselves for months at sea. These "work-ups" have been good for the boys and me, too, giving us the confidence we need to prepare for time without dad around. I had a chance to meet with other ship spouses this week and their organization, the Family Readiness Group, has lots of activities planned to foster a support network amongst the families while the ship is at sea.
We enjoyed our Easter Sunday at home, taking the boys to church and to brunch at the Club. It was a surprisingly dismal day for Hawaii, with bouts of rain throughout the day. We made a delicious ham dinner with veggie sides and Chris got his hands (and feet) dirty cleaning out our garden fountain. Hope you guys had a great holiday too.

Full House

Can it possibly be March? We've been here 5 months already! Almost half a year since I've seen you, at least! It has finally gotten cold here. Don't laugh, but when you are used to 88 and sunny, 66 and windy is uncomfortable. Chris' parents are here with us, now about 1/2 through their visit. We are having a fine time, going about our daily business and the boys are absolutely thrilled to have all the attention. I'm getting to go out to lunch with girlfriends and go grocery shopping by myself. I'm even able to run Kailua beach in the morning while they all play in the sand. I am in heaven! Tomorrow begins the t-ball season and guess what? I am the assistant coach! My good friend Belinda stepped up as coach on the condition that I would back her up. We are the Phillies (of course!) and I bought red shirts at the Exchange today so I look official out on the field. Look the part and the rest will come, I keep telling myself. We've spent the last week madly preparing drills and assembling equipment. Can you believe the league didn't have any tee's to give out??!
Nothing new on the work-front, though I am helping Chris by designing a didactic panel for a new simulator building being dedicated to a medal of honor recipient. He's presenting my idea to the Commanding Officer tomorrow, we'll see if it gets approved. I'm not holding my breath: military graphics haven't yet proved themselves to be on the cutting edge of visual literacy.
Evan is verbalizing more and more: this week he said kayak (gay-yah), Grandma (gay-yah), and guava (gay-yah). His growth in vocabulary is truly amazing.
Sorry it's been so long since I've posted. It just means we are content, cruising through each day much like the one before. Wish me luck on the ball field.

A New Day

A new day has dawned! Everyone is in good health and the world is once again ours for the taking. I really had a rejuvenating weekend, first dinner and pedis with the girls (my don't my feet look pretty) and then book club with a great group of women (The Alchemist). The sitter was worth every single penny. Turns out she'll be moving to our side of the island in a few months and then we'll have to work out some sort of direct-deposit arrangement, she'll be here so much!
Our social calendar continues to fill up -- it turns out I needed to take more initiative there -- and this weekend we are looking forward to a trip to Chinatown for the Chinese New Year celebrations and a special Mom and Jake date to see Avatar 3D. (I know, I know. I've heard how good it is.) Chris and his folks will be here in just over 2 weeks and then things will really pick up. I'm so looking forward to having the opportunity to do some things we haven't gotten to do yet: from seeing the Arizona memorial to going kayaking and paddle boarding with Chris at the beach.

Kick Me

Oh, my. What a start to the New Year. For the last 10 days I feel like I've had a sign that says, KICK ME on my back. Since Chris has been gone -- he left for a month to San Diego -- it's been one thing after another, it seems. Though we had an extraordinarily good time with Mike and Mattie, who came to visit for a week in the beginning of the month, their departure left me with a deep sense of loneliness and separation from my loved ones. They were gone, Chris was gone, and there was just US, and not a whole lot on the calendar to do. (So the post-holiday winter doldrums aren't limited to cold-weather climes, I figure.) Well, I shouldn't have worried about what to do, because we had a new visitor, albeit an uninvited one: a stomach virus came to play with the boys and I. Poor Jake had it worst of all, and Evan is still suffering from stomach upset. It left me fatigued and despairing...feeling like a prisoner in the house and not even meal times to look forward to! Prior to that I got my first bee sting on the patio, luckily no allergic reaction and thank God it wasn't Evan. Now we have a mandatory SHOE rule in the backyard; lots of flowering shrubs attract any number of buzzing "friends" to our yard. On a lighter note, yesterday was Jake's first Science Fair at school. He took me to his classroom where we observed the experiment they had performed: how celery and daisies absorb food coloring. He explained it very well and took me around proudly to each of the displays. In the cafeteria we looked at the older kids' projects and Jake was very interested in what each experiment tried to show, and wanted to know what each had proven. He seems to be really enjoying Fun Season soccer (1 practice, 1 game per week) and I'm considering getting him a once a week swim lesson as well. Evan and I have just discovered Playmorning, a mom and tot program run three times a week by the YMCA on base where we can go play with new toys and meet other little ones his age. I was reinvigorated last night by a much anticipated Girls Night--pedicures and Thai food with two other moms--and feel ready to take on the world once again.